Barriers To Building Positive Habits
Sep 12, 2023
In today’s society, the need to build positive habits in our lives is well understood. From waking up early to exercising regularly; from eating healthily to practising mindfulness; everyone seems to desire some sort of positive change in their lives.
However, despite the best intentions, many of us find ourselves struggling to build and maintain these positive habits. So what are the barriers that hold people back?
One of the fundamental reasons we fail to build positive habits is the lack of clarity about what we want to achieve. Vague goals such as "getting fit" or "being more productive" can be overwhelming and demotivating. Without a clear understanding of the specific habit you’re trying to develop and the reasons behind it, you can lose sight of their purpose and find it difficult to stay committed.
In addition, in an era of instant gratification, the delayed rewards associated with positive habits can deter us from staying focused. Many habits, such as regular exercise or healthy eating, require consistent effort over an extended period before you start to see results.
Building positive habits can be a lonely journey, and without a support system or some form of accountability, you may struggle to stay on track. The absence of external motivation or encouragement can lead to a lack of commitment and eventual abandonment of the habit-building process.
Consistency is key to habit formation, yet our lifestyles are often characterised by erratic schedules and constant distractions. Inconsistent routines make it challenging to establish new habits as they require a predictable environment and dedicated time slots. Disruptions in routine can lead to a break in the habit-building process, making it harder to resume.
It is a gradual process that requires patience and perseverance. Many people become disheartened when they don't see immediate results and abandon their efforts prematurely.
The fear of failure and the possibility of not living up to one's own expectations can paralyse you from even starting the habit-building journey. This fear can stem from a fear of judgement, a lack of self-confidence, or past experiences of not succeeding in similar endeavours.
While the pursuit of positive habits is undoubtedly challenging, understanding and addressing the barriers that hold us back can significantly enhance our chances of success. By setting clear goals, focusing on long-term rewards, seeking accountability, setting realistic targets, maintaining consistency, practising patience, and embracing the possibility of setbacks. You can overcome these obstacles and create lasting change in your life.
Remember, building positive habits is a journey. Focus on the next step, no matter how small, and celebrate it.
I am excited to be offering a free masterclass later this week, Thursday 14 September. Your Habits: Discover The Potential Of Positive Habits. Don't miss this opportunity to build a lifestyle where you are in control, a lifestyle that is balanced, a lifestyle that is healthier.
